It’s the most notorious dating advice of all time, but what does it actually mean – and is it useful?
‘Just Be Yourself’ must be the most commonly issued dating advice of all time – but is it really that simple? Has it worked for you?
In this guest post for menprovement.com, I argue that plenty of singletons have spent years trying to ‘just be themselves’ with nothing to show for it.
I explore what ‘Just Be Yourself’ actually means and how you can tailor that advice to have better dates.
HINT: It doesn’t mean you can be shy, nervous, insecure, unhygenic, even if you think that’s your ‘true self’.
The Thrill Of The Chase
If you like the post, I predict you’ll love my new book The Thrill Of The Chase.
The book explores how I learned to truly enjoy singledom, and get a lot of better at meeting girls in the process.
There’s also tons of useful titbits about getting over heartbreak, overcoming fear of rejection, how to never run out of things to say on a date and more…